So you are wondering what to think, how to feel, and most importantly where to begin. This is good. How about we begin
with
one of the most important thoughts, one that we feel is so true - so true that we in fact built our business trusting in it
and using it. It's O.K. because it's Natural. Yes, so natural. We at Intimate Synergy believe that bodies are beautiful and so
is sex. That is why we also believe that sex toys are perfectly fine. Actually they are better than fine, they are good… even
great! For years, sex toys were believed to be wrong, dirty, and not in any way acceptable. Well, change occurs with all
things in life, and sex toys are becoming more and more accepted every day. What was known to be taboo in a polite society
now is acceptable not only in conversation but even with the media, news and television. Thank goodness! Adult sex toys are
fun, safe and a healthy way to spice up your sex life! It is wonderful that our culture is able to be more open with views and
feelings not just on sex toys, but with all aspects of life. If you want to believe that sex toys are bad and naughty, then
that is what you will believe, but if you like so many others out there love yourself, your partner and respect the
relationship that you have created. You are open and are bound to enjoy the pleasure and excitement that introducing an adult
sex toy can bring into your sex life.
There are various types of sex toys used for various pleasures and in many different ways including different situations
and
circumstances. To begin there are vibrators and non-vibrating dildos. Both of these products are made out of many types of
materials. To read more about the materials please visit our materials link for detailed information. The basic difference is
the presence of an electronic vibrating devise whether, it be a small bullet or motor. Both men and women can purchase sex
toys for the pleasure that they specifically desire. Adult sex toys range from his and her remote control items, rings,
ticklers, clitoral and nipple stimulators, to couple stimulators and various lubricants, oils and amazing furniture products!
At Intimate Synergy we believe in creating a very complete, whole, and intimate experience that is why we carry classic items
such as bath and massage products, games, educational material, accessories, and lingerie.
There are many myths about sex toys. Remember these are simply ridiculous myths. Usually thought of because there is a lack
of
knowledge and understanding. Some of these myths include the following:
- Sex toys are for masturbation only.
- sex toys will make your partner feel inadequate.
- Sex toys can be physically dangerous.
- If you use a sex toy too much you won't have an orgasm with your partner.
- If your relationship with your partner is solid you don't need a sex toy.
- and last but not least, buying sex toys is embarrassing.
These seem like they may have reason to them, but if you are
open to communicating with your
partner you will realize and come to fully understand that when used properly, sex toys will not harm you physically or harm
your relationship in any way. Seriously, sex toys can give you an orgasm, but they can't cuddle with you afterwards. On an
emotional level you will in no way experience a distance between you and your partner. Sex toys will never replace live
humans. If your lover has this fear, be sensitive and stroke his or her ego a little bit. As with most relationship issues;
good communication can go a long way to solving problems and building a loving and intimate relationship. If your partner is
worried about being replaced it is a good idea to reassure them that a sex toy can be for mutual pleasure and help the passion
grow. Sex toys are fun and you will find that by opening up - your relationship will benefit in more than one way. If you've
addressed each of these misconceptions with your partner and he or she is still apprehensive about using a sex toy with you,
take it slow, be patient and think creatively. Flatter your partner, show him or her how much you enjoy his or her body, and
make the most of your sexual time together. It's possible your relationship isn't ready for that level of intimacy yet, but
with time and effort, your lover might change his or her mind. Just be supportive!
When you are ready to add an adult sex toy to your relationship keep these few and simple tips in mind.
- Start slow. Begin with purchasing something that you both agree will be pleasurable, maybe a subtle, sweet, and small
couple stimulator. Once you have taken that first step and enjoyed the erotic, fun and passionate play you will be ready to
try something a little more risky!
- Be gentle. Always be open with your partner. We strongly suggest taking it soft and slow. There is always plenty of
time to build on being rough. Just remember to keep the communication open.
- Use lubrication. It is a must to have a bottle of lubrication handy. Neither, you or your partner needs to worry about
hurting their body, and it is possible if you don't use sex toys in the proper way with the proper amount of lubrication. Just
use your best judgment! Better safe than sorry, so please use lubrication.
- Be flexible. You may not get it right the first time. That is completely O.K. Realize and understand that there are
endless options to choose from and what you may think will be a dream come true might end up not feeling as wonderful.
Everyone is different that is why there is a huge variety. Be patient and simply put it aside and try something new. Trust us.
You will find your fantasy, and the passion is bound to come. You may even end up picking up the toy at a later time and
finding it amazing!
The important thing to remember is that your relationship is an intimate partnership, which implies that both of you are in
this together. You make the decision together; you select the toy together, and you experiment together. If your lover feels
as though he or she can trust you, things will go much better for you and your toy; sharing the experience goes a long way to
promoting that trust.
The last thing to remember - just have some passionate play! Fun really is needed… and isn't it about time?
