As a certified massage therapist I have experienced many forms of massage. Everything from the popular Swedish massage, to
very unique Thai massages originating on the beaches of Thailand. I work using range of motion (or Swedish gymnastic)
techniques and Trager-like rocking and jostling. Even a nice high energy, up-beat Sports massage is needed every now and then!
All forms of massage have their own special energy that put your mind, body, and soul in a special place. Out of all the forms
of massage, sensual massage is the most intimate.
We all know that touch is very sensual and intimate, but how do you touch your partner so sweetly, and sensually
communicating
what you feel through the touch of your hands? I will share with you some of my tips on giving and receiving a sensual
massage.
Building trust in a relationship is one of the most important aspects to pure and true intimacy. If you and your partner
are
not completely open and honest with each other, you will make it much more difficult to obtain that sensual intimate bond. Our
bodies are amazing art forms, each of us uniquely different. We all need to honor the differences. Through experience I have
come to realize that each spirit will have different needs. What feels good to you, may not feel good to someone else,
visa-versa. Bottom line- strive to be open, let down your walls and trust that the intimate connection will grow stronger each
time.
Starting
To start a sensual massage you want to put some soft music on, light some candles and get out the oil or even cornstarch.
These are important elements in creating a sensual and romantic atmosphere. I, personally, enjoy the massage oils from Kama
Sutra and Tantric. They have a wonderful aroma and even come in a line specially made for a night of sensual experience! To
see some of our erotic flavors please click on this link ---. Let your partner know that it is important for them to relax,
trust, and openly communicate with you while you are working. With that in mind let the passion flow!
Start by taking a nice hot shower or bath together. It will only add to the anticipation of the sensual massage and will
help
relax your partner's muscles. After your cleansing time, you can start the sensual massage. Both the floor and bed are nice
places, just be sure that the room is clean for a nice relaxing atmosphere. It is always nice to please more than one sense at
a time. Adding some wine or champagne and some strawberries and chocolate is always a good idea! I usually start by rubbing
the hands or the feet. Both of these areas have more nerve endings and feel sensational! If you decide to use cornstarch, you
may want to have a feather handy. A cornstarch massage consists mainly of nerve-stroking. Nerve stroking is a light technique
using the tips of your fingers. It should be very light and slow. You can use circular or linear patterns, even writing sweet
words can be very sensual! Nerve stoking stimulates your nervous system, taking your nerves to another universe-so far from
here. Your partner's parasympathetic will respond moments after you begin and you will notice their heart beat and breathing
becomes soft and slow. If you decide to use oil and give your partner a swedish-like massage then you will be using more
rubbing than nerve stroking, however you can always mix and add anything you want. It is your sensual massage, be creative!
Remember that there is no wrong way to touch, as long as you are both open and loving. You may want to even try one of the
glass toys while massaging your partners back. They are nice for those sore spots that like a little more pressure and
attention. It is also much easier on the givers hands. To see some of these beautiful art pieces please visit us at--------. A
sensual massage can be as romantic and erotic as you want. Kissing your partners body all over is very sensual and pleasing.
Whether you start on the hands, feet or somewhere else make sure you touch all parts of the body. Legs, arms, back, chest,
face, neck, scalp, and genital areas all need a sensual "hello". Just make sure that your strokes are light, soft, and slow.
Taking your time is very important when you are sensually honoring your partner's body.
The purpose of a sensual massage is to experience an intimate connection with your partner. Sex can become a routine, and
often times true intimacy and loving romance is forgotten. If you and your partner practice honoring each other with sensual
massages every week, your relationship will be strengthened by the open communication and your love for one another will grow
more intimate. Why not try spicing up your sex life with an act that is sure to make your body feel incredibly amazing!
Ending
Always share your thoughts with each other after you have experienced a night of sensuality! Remember that communicating with
each other is so important. Gratitude for the caring effort to please your partner should always be expressed. I hope that my
tips have helped you to create an interest in building and intimate, loving relationship.
