Oral sex for woman can be an
exciting and delicious experience. It's something that should be enjoyed and celebrated
completely by both partners. So if you're the giver, don't just go down and do it…. do it right!
Being tuned into a woman's mood and feelings is very important when performing oral sex. It's not the strength, size, or
movements of your tongue that get her to want to play; it's you being 110% conscious in that very moment. Paying attention to
her movements, gestures, voice, and feelings is the easiest way to get her to want to experience some oral play.
First things first, don't run in like John Wayne on a black stallion ripping her panties down to her ankles. Take your time
cowboy, it's a very sensitive area. The best thing to do is start slow and builds up speed as you go. Remember, she needs your
patience and tenderness in the beginning. Don't forget to pay attention to the rest of her body as well, her inner-thighs,
ankles, breasts, back and stomach, are all areas that would enjoy to be touched and caressed as you begin.
Second, be aware of your lover! Make occasional eye contact with her and really connect with her emotions and excitement.
Keeping her body close to you is one easy way to make that connection. Don't just lick and burry your face, keep her legs
wrapped around you with your arms holding her close. The closer you are to each other, the more open she will feel to let go
and feel pure pleasure. Also, be conscious of what she likes and doesn't like. Don't just burry your face and assume she likes
it, try new things and be aware of her reactions. Remember, this isn't rocket science, your not splitting atom's here.
Finally, enjoy yourselves! Who ever the giver is don't assume your doing her a big favor or your disgusted by the process,
this is the easiest way to turn your night of love play into a night spent all alone. And if you're the receiver, enjoy the
process! Let go and except the fulfilling emotions and pleasures that can come from this joyful experience. If you don't let
the giver know your enjoying it, that chances are you probably wont get it again.
Oral pleasure can be an exciting and joyful experience if both the "Giver" and the "Receiver" are willing to take the time
to
notice how each other are feeling and what each other like. Remember, don't assume and don't pretend like this is some huge
favor, both partners are "Giving" and "Receiving" and the same exact moment. It's a mutual affair!
