In today's society, masturbation
in general is still considered a very private and delicate issue.
According to the Merriam-Webster dictionary; masturbation is defined as:
Main Entry: mas·tur·ba·tion
Pronunciation: "mas-t&r-'bA-sh&n
Function: noun
Date: 1766
: erotic stimulation especially of one's own genital organs commonly resulting in orgasm and achieved by manual or other
bodily contact exclusive of sexual intercourse, by instrumental manipulation, occasionally by sexual fantasies, or by various
combinations of these agencies
Take note however that the term masturbation does not specify exactly how masturbation is done! Masturbation is the
stimulation of one's genital organs - exclusive of sexual intercourse. What does this mean? It means that there are endless
possibilities
However, male masturbation is viewed much differently than female masturbation. Men are known for their much higher sexual
drives and sometimes assumed that masturbation is a more natural/more common action for men. But, even among men,
masturbation is not an issue they commonly discuss - it is more an act that is accepted and quietly "swept under the rug".
Female masturbation is an even more "hush hush" issue!
Ok ladies, let's have a look at some different techniques that will work to get you off. The majority of women, myself
included can only attain orgasm through manual stimulation. There are a few who can achieve orgasm through intercourse alone
and I'm jealous of them. Anyway, here are some techniques that might add a little variety to your masturbation play.
Direct clitoral stimulation:
Rolling, rolling, rolling - ok, for this technique you need to place your thumb and forefinger around the clitoris
and gently
roll it in between your fingers. You can start off with a slow gentle roll and then gradually pick up the pace and the
pressure according to what feels good to you.
Circular rub - I generally find that if I am in a hurry this technique works wonders. Just take your first two
fingers from
either hand and place them over top of you clitoris. Then begin moving them in a circular motion over top of the clitoris. You
can vary the speed and pressure easily with this technique. I find that if I use this one I can reach orgasm in under a
minute. If you want to change the feel slightly just add your favorite lube and everything becomes very slippery.
Tapping - This technique is a little different and it's not for everyone, as with anything some things will work for
some
people and not for others. For this one I use my left hand to pull the pussy lips back out of the way so that the clitoris is
very exposed. Then with my index finger on my right hand I lightly begin tapping the fingertip gently on the clitoris. It
results in a very delicious sensation that builds to a point where you just can't hold it back anymore.
Combination - There is nothing that gets me wetter faster than using a combination of both hands. Have your fingers
from one
hand playing with your clitoris, stimulating it however you wish. Take the other hand and place two or three fingers inside
your vagina and begin thrusting. Basically you're simulating intercourse with this action and it works rather nicely in tandem
with the clitoral stimulation and can bring you to a rocking orgasm!
